24. DEBORAH TANNEN, Georgetown University
Linguistics 684
Gender Differences in Language Use
Spring 1989
Note: I last taught this course in Spring 1989, while I was
working on You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in
Conversation. Some of the readings are outdated, but some are
classics. If I were to teach the course again now, I'd probably
assign my own book and also the one I just finished editing: a
collection of papers entitled Gender and Conversational
Interaction to be published by Oxford University Press in a few
months. I would also make Lakoff's Language and Woman's Place
required, for historical and foundational reasons. I would not
use any of the other collections, but would put a packet together
from recent publications. The outline of the course and its
concerns would probably not change.
Linguistics 684
Gender Differences in Language Use
Spring 1989
Time: Thursday 2:40 - 5:10
Prerequisite: Linguistics 484 Discourse Analysis: Conversation
Requirements: Attendance in class and participation in discussion
Required reading (texts and packet)
Outside reading (and oral & written summaries)
Taping and transcribing conversation
Research project and class presentation
Written research paper (c. 15 pages)
Texts, Required:
Coates, Jennifer. Women, Men, and Language. Longman, 1986.
Thorne, Barrie, Cheris Kramarae, & Nancy Henley (eds.).
Language, Gender, and Society. Newbury House, 1983.
Philips, Susan, Susan Steele, and Chris Tanz (eds.). Language,
Gender, and Sex in Comparative Perspective. Cambridge:
Cambridge U. Press, 1988.
Goffman, Erving. Gender Advertisements. Harper & Row, 1976.
Lakoff, Robin. Language and Woman's Place. Harper & Row, 1976.
Tannen, Deborah. That's Not That What I Meant! Ballantine,
1986.
Recommended Subscriptions and Memberships:
Women and Language News
Organization for the Study of Communication, Lg & Gender
Goals:
1. To survey and evaluate the research that has been done on
gender differences in language use.
2. To do original research to clarify, verify, build on, and/or
otherwise contribute to that research.
This is an advanced course in conversational analysis. Our
concern is gender differences in ways of speaking.
Topics include:
Power and solidarity (Lakoff; Tannen; others)
Turntaking (Is it true that men interrupt women? Zimmerman &
West and critics, including Schegloff & Murray)
Topic (Is there a difference in what women and men talk about?)
Genres (anthropological work on men's and women's speech genres;
Greece: Caraveli on women's laments; Herzfeld, The Poetics
of Manhood; Ochs on Malagasy; Schieffelin on religious
rites; American genres (tall tales, gossip, joke-telling,
family stories, baseball stories, etc. etc.)
the role of conversation in relationships
public vs. private Domains
communicative styles (cooperation vs. competition; message vs.
metamessage; indirectness; use of questions, tag questions,
polite forms, other syntactic types)
the interaction of styles (complementary schismogenesis?)
men and women as listeners and speakers (Do men and women talk
differently to men and women? Do they listen differently?)
gender and sexual orientation
Research paper:
A paper of at least 15 pages analyzing conversational tapes and
transcripts, including relevant literature review.
Topics may be chosen from the following list, or be approved by
me:
--Compare men's and women's personals ads: What do women and
men
say they want?
--Compare male and female callers to talk shows on topics of
interest to women and men
--Compare male and female questioners at meetings, in class
--overlaps and interruptions
--topic
--storytelling in conversation
--who talks more?
--uses of talk
--dominance: what linguistic strategies have been seen as showing
dominance? How valid are these evaluations?
--exploring particular women's or men's genres (laments, joke-
telling, etc.)
--evaluation of women and men who use the same linguistic forms
--response to problems
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Contents of Required Packet
1. Cover Sheet: List of Readings
2. List of Assignments (with due dates)
3. Bibliographies: Interruptions, Topic, Gossip, Books
4. Required readings in order of assignment:
Fishman, Pamela M. 1978. What do couples talk about when
they're alone? Women's language and style, ed. by
Douglas Butturff, 11-22. Akron, Ohio: Department of
English, University of Akron.
Maltz, Daniel N., & Ruth A. Borker. 1982. A cultural
approach to male-female miscommunication. In: John J.
Gumperz (ed.), Language and social identity.
Cambridge: Cambridge U. Press, pp. 196-216.
Henley, Nancy and Cheris Kramarae. 1988. Miscommunication
- Issues of gender and power. Paper presented at the
annual meeting of the National Women's Studies
Association, Minneapolis.
Aries, Elizabeth. 1976. Interaction patterns and themes of
male, female, and mixed groups. Small Group Behavior
7:1.7-18.
Aries, Elizabeth. 1982. Verbal and nonverbal behavior in
single-sex and mixed-sex groups: Are traditional sex
roles changing? Psychological Reports 51.127-34.
Leet-Pellegrini, H. M. 1980. Conversational dominance as a
function of gender and expertise. Language: Social
psychological perspectives, ed. by Howard Giles, W. Peter
Robinson, and Philip M. Smith, 97-104. Oxford: Pergamon.
Murray, Stephen O. 1985. Toward a model of members' methods for
recognizing interruptions. Language in Society 13:31-40.
Murray, Stephen O. 1987. Power and solidarity in
"interruption": A critique of the Santa Barbara School
conception and its application by Orcutt and Harvey (1985).
Symbolic Interaction 10:1.101-110.
Murray, Stephen O., and Lucille H. Covelli. 1988. Women
and men speaking at the same time. Journal of
Pragmatics 12:1.103-11.
Talbot, Mary. 1988. The operation was a success;
unfortunately, the patient died: A comment on 'Women
and men speaking at the same time' by Murray and
Covelli. Journal of Pragmatics 12:1.113-4.
Murray, Stephen O. 1988. The sound of simultaneous speech,
the meaning of interruption: A rejoinder. Journal of
Pragmatics 12:1.115-16.
Goffman, Erving. 1979[1976]. Gender display. Gender
advertisements, 1-9. New York: Harper & Row.
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List of Assignments
Date Reading Due
WEEK 3: CONVERSATIONAL COHERENCE ACROSS AGES
1/26 I: Lecture and Video Presentation
You: Tape conversations and begin transcribing
WEEK 4: BEGINNING AT THE BEGINNING: RESEARCH ON
CHILDREN
2/2 Tanz, Introduction, Pt II (163-77) (PST)
Sachs, Preschool boys' and girls' lg use (PST)
Goodwin & Goodwin, Children's arguing (PST)
Schieffelin, different worlds/ different words? (PST)
WEEK 5: KIDS CONT'D & GENDER AS CULTURE VS. POWER
2/9 Berko-Gleason, Men's speech to young children (TKH)
Berko-Gleason, Sex diffs in parent-child inter. (PST)
Fishman, Interaction: The Work Women Do (TKH)
Fishman, What do couples talk about ... (packet)
Maltz & Borker, A cultural approach ... (packet)
Henley & Kramarae, Miscommunication ... (packet)
WEEKS 6 & 7: CROSS-CULTURAL PERSPECTIVES
2/16 Philips, Introduction, Pt. I (15-25) (PST)
Shibamoto, The womanly woman (PST)
Ochs, The impact of stratification ... (PST)
2/23 Philips & Reynolds: The interaction of ... (PST)
Sherzer, A diversity of voices (PST)
Hill, Women's speech in modern Mexicano (PST)
WEEK 8: SMALL GROUP INTERACTION (EXPERIMENTAL
STUDIES)
3/2 Aries, Interaction patterns and themes ... (packet)
Aries, Verbal and nonverbal behavior ... (packet)
Leet-Pellegrini, Conversational dominance ... (packet)
WEEK 9: INTERRUPTIONS AND SILENCE
3/16 West & Zimmerman, Small Insults (TKH)
Murray, Toward a model of members' methods (packet)
Murray, Power and solidarity in "interruption"
(packet)
Murray & Covelli, Women & men speaking ... (packet)
Talbot, The operation was a success ... (packet)
Murray, A rejoinder (packet)
Sattel, Men, inexpressiveness, & power (TKH)
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WEEK 10: SUMMING UP: NATURE/NURTURE ETC.
3/30 McConnell-Ginet, Intonation in a man's world (TKH)
Goffman, Gender display (packet)
Thorne, Kramarae, Henley, Lg, Gender & Society (TKH)
Philips, Introduction (1-25) (PST)
WEEKS 11-14 PRESENTATION OF FINAL PROJECTS
(We may have guest speakers on 4/6)
FINAL PAPERS DUE on the date for which a final exam is scheduled.
No late papers or incompletes, for any reason.
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